Saturday, May 30, 2026

Delay or Preparation


 

Often, I open my email box to find newsletters from various ministries and organizations. Today was no different. But it’s not that often that a newsletter hits me where it counts. Today’s uplifting messages came from Patricia Raybon, author of much, including the fabulous Annalee Spain mysteries. If you haven’t read them, I highly recommend them (here), and her upcoming book, The Sedalia Code (here).





 



She proposed a question I’m still chewing on, even after discussing it with my husband, Dave.

“What ‘delays’ in our lives might God be using as preparation?”

And, I might add, preparation for what, exactly?

We’ve been entertaining the idea of moving since Dave retired (the second time, six years ago). With two out of three children living in Tennessee, we presume that would be our destination. But we could be wrong.

The problem is, even though we both hear from God regularly, we’re not hearing a thing about this move.

I’ve heard it said that God answers our prayers with one of three answers: yes, no and not now.

We’ve been living under the assumption that the time isn’t right for a move, yet.

At our age, it will be an endeavor to move across the country. We don’t want to step out in faith and find out it was a wrong move. Moving will be expensive; we’re used to having the US Military move our belongings for us. We’re not rich, but we’re not poor – but we certainly don’t have money to waste on an expensive move if it’s not the RIGHT move.

What if?

What if we’re causing our own delays?

What if this is a season of preparation for what comes after the move, and we haven’t been preparing as we should?

What if we’re the ones dragging out the delay?

It’s felt like a season of rest. And we’re certainly in the Word of God more than ever before – but what if that’s not enough to be prepared for what’s to come?

Rather than furthering any delays, we’ve concluded that we’ll not only spend more time in the Word, but we’ll make sure it’s quality time. No more checking off a commitment for the day. It’s time to start chewing on the Word of God and making it a staple in our daily diets. There may be days when it doesn’t sit well in our bellies – but that’s just caused by lack of understanding and not seeing the whole picture.

In Matthew 18:19 Jesus tells us, “Again, I say unto you, that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.”

Dave and I make that minimum.

In Luke 11:10 He tells us, “For everyone that asks receives, and he that seeks finds; and to him that knocks it shall be opened.”

We can ask, see and knock together – in harmony and with unity.

And in James 1:5 we read, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that gives to all men liberally, and upbraids not [meaning he won’t show disapproval or criticize or be disappointed that we asked]; and it shall be given him.”

Maybe we’ve been asking the wrong question(s).

Starting today, I’m asking for God’s wisdom for right now and not concerning myself with what’s to come unless He puts it on my heart.

We’ll continue to pray, read God’s Word and meditate upon it, and study out what the Scriptures mean – and what He’s saying to us through them in the here and now….. doing the prep work!

8 comments:

  1. With the rise of AI, we need Wisdom from above to keep it in check and be our servant, not our master.

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    1. That's about as true as it gets!
      I was just watching a video on the bioengineered foods we're eating! Yikes!

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  2. Praying 🙏 for you both ...we've been praying that we can move across country closer to the East Coast where many family members live. Our daughter misses the 4 seasons & our granddaughters miss their cousins. We're waiting for a good sign from God.

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    1. God bless your decisions as He prepares you for what's ahead. His plans for us are the best. Jeremiah 29:11
      I'll be praying for discernment and trust that you'll hear Him when He speaks to you.
      Sending you my love and my blessings!

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  3. Very good points. I appreciate this!

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    1. Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read and connect! I appreciate you.

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  4. Helen, I too want to move closer to my kiddos. Not sure when that should happen but being up here without any family seems scary to me as we get older. Of course Hubby isn't from the South & is hesitant to move away from the home he has put so much work & effort into building. Diy for now, waiting on the Lord for clarity & timing. Thank you for posting. I always enjoy your posts. Love you sweet friend!!

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    1. Sam, I hear what you're saying loud and clear.
      Our hearts tear because of distance.
      I decided that if indeed this is time for preparation, I need to be preparing myself - for only God knows what.
      It's a season of life no one prepared us for and I don't know about you, but I feel like I've been flopping around in every directing except the right one.
      It feels like perpetual waiting.
      When we know what we're waiting for, it makes it a little easier.
      Right now I'm trying to be content wherein I find myself, focusing on learning the true nature of God and accepting just how great His love is for me!

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